Gramma's Shoes

The other day Kate texted: "Do you want to go to IKEA with us?" I'd been cleaning house and was still in my sweats, but that sounded fun. Kate said she looked a mess, so no big deal. (She did NOT look a mess, btw.) So I said I would throw on some jeans and a decent tee, and we arranged to meet so we wouldn't take two cars across the bridge.

We arrive and as I'm helping Sophie, newly three years old, out of the car, she looks at my walking shoes and says, "Gwamma, why are you wearing those shoes?" (Such a fashionista, particularly when it comes to shoes. She has entertained many circles of women as they notice her examining all their shoes.) I make some lame excuse about being in a hurry.

We had success at IKEA and Crate and Barrel, load the car and head back across the bridge when I hear from the back seat, "Gwamma, I don't like your shoes." 

I look straight ahead keeping my laughter silent as Katie, mortified, says, "Sophie Merette, that is not a nice thing to say," and goes on about people's feelings and not saying ever that you don't like what someone is wearing... OK? .... OK?  ... OK Sophie?

"I'm eating my sandwich and my mouth is full so I can't say OK." Says the 3-year-old in the back seat. 

Lesson: be careful what you wear to hang out with a 3-year-old fashionista!


[They came over this morning and as I helped Sophie out of her carseat, she looks down at my boots and says, "See, much better." ]


that little girl makes me laugh!

On being thankful

Thanksgiving is past, but before the swap from pumpkins to lights and ornaments around our house, I want to take a sec and reflect on my blessings. I could list 100, but you’d get bored pretty quickly. So here are 5 things I am SO thankful for:

1. My dear husband, who loves me and is such a support in my crazy endeavors. (Maybe it’s because I keep him well-fed!)

2. Our daughters and their families. They married great guys, and we now have 2 grandchildren. 

3. My education. I got to go back to school and study graphic design. I think I missed my calling the first time around.

4. My home. I get to live in the San Francisco Bay Area. I was born in the City, and I haven’t travelled far. I sure love it here and wouldn’t want to be anywhere else (except for a visit, of course!).

5. This one’s kinda crazy, but I’m so thankful for my sewing machine. It’s about 60 years old (waaay older than me), and has kept the kids and me clothed, stitched many bridesmaids dresses, curtains and tablecloths, and helped me be creative for the past 34 years. 

Did you have a chance to consider your blessings the past week? It’s a fun exercise before we rush into the Christmas season. What are you thankful for?